The other day our mail consisted of 3 things:
1 - an invite to a baby shower for a lady in our ward.
2 - a thank you note from a family friend who recently got married. Jared, Denise & I made the food for her wedding luncheon and reception. It was a lot of work, but they are a great family and we were happy to help.
3 - an envelope that wasn't mailed, but placed in the box, labeled only with "Jared & Jerusha Smart" on the outside. Jared and I were practically fighting over who got to open it (he won). It was a very sweet note from an even sweeter neighbor who felt compelled to write it after hearing Ashton bear his testimony during January's Fast & Testimony meeting. This is what it said:
"Dear Jared & Jerusha, I just want to let you know how impressed I am with your sweet family. You have done an amazing job as parents and I just hope Greg & I are doing what we need to in order to raise great kids like you have. Each one of your children are so sweet and respectful....they are such a joy to be around. Kelsey is the absolute greatest babysitter - she is our favorite! Emma was so fun to have in Activity Days - she was always so nice to everyone. Ashton is such a good kid with a huge heart - I'll never forget how he donated his own money to "Penny's by the Inch". He did a great job bearing his testimony this month. Mallory is such a cutie and Easton has loved going to church and school with her. Conner is such a great friend to Easton. He is such a fun & well-behaved kid. He is welcome to play at our house anytime (including anyone else in your family!). My mom taught elementary school for over 40 years & at Easton's birthday party last year, she was MOST impressed with Conner of all the kids at the party. We can't wait to get to know Sophie better as she & Talan grow up! Thank you so much for your wonderful friendship & the great influence your kids are on ours!"
It was SO nice to get something like this, out of the blue, in the mail. Maybe if Susan saw how rude Conner & Mallory can be to each other she'd think twice! ;] We really do have great kids, and I know that while they are little and growing up they will fight, but I also know that one day they will all be best friends! And before I know it this house will be quiet far too often and we'll be having our kids over with their kids running around. I try everyday to enjoy the little things they do and say. Mal wanting me to sit and cuddle with her on the couch, or color a paper. Sophie looking straight into my eyes talking gibberish, like I know exactly what she's saying. Doing homework with Conner and watching his face as he reads a book, or playing math games and secretly letting him win every time. Sharing the love of soccer with Ashton - watching him play is one of the greatest things. And he is so good! Watching Kelsey & Emma interact with their younger siblings melts my heart. To see Kelsey pick up Mal or Soph and give them a big squeeze is awesome. And Sophie loves to cuddle with Emma more than anyone I think. I love that Kels & Emma want to talk to me about "girl" stuff, their friends, make-up, annoying teachers. Being a Mom is the best thing in the world. =]